Wet or dry. Those are the only available seasons where I grew up. There is no such thing as the first rain. The rain comes without permission, and leaves without any goodbye. It blessed some and punished others. So does the dry season. It grows and it kills. The cycle continues like a circle in life with minimum nuance. It has no start, it has no end. Life did not give more than two options back then. It was either wet or dry. Third option hardly exist for most people.
The nuance of seasons grew in me when I traveled to four-season countries. Spring, summer, fall, and winter. As if the life cycle has four different checkpoints in each compass direction. There is still no start and the end of the cycle. Yet spring is always associated with the beginning, and ends in winter.
People often say spring is the season of life, where the dormant start to come out from their habitat. I only knew what dormant is from a biology textbook. The example was about the bear or turtle, who came awake from the long sleeping period. However, I never saw myself in a dormant state back then. It was always about survival in the two seasons. They never had mercy regardless of how the storm hit the people so hard.
The hills around Göreme
The first thing in life always leaves a mark in life. So did the first spring I had in Turkey, April 2019. I didn’t see turtles or bears coming out from their lairs. But the buds on each branch of the tree gave a signal. Spring forgives, spring nurtures, and spring helps the life back on its feet. The season must be a mother that loves without asking back. No wonder the living being named it spring, as everything comes out from what perceived as the end.
Spring in Şirince, around early April 2019
I remember the joy in my first spring. I witnessed the first bloom of cherry blossoms in Istanbul. They were dressed in pink and stood firm around people. Or the wisterias growing on facades. God knows how old they were. Their beauty can be witnessed without seeing one. Their scents filled the joy in the air. Bees were buzzing and dancing around their colorful petals. I fell in love again like the first time, and my heart bloomed like flowers in their first spring.
If only I knew seasons never come in four, would I believe life offers options?
If only spring would never come to my life, would my heart ever bloomed like those flowers?
This year, 2025, the spring decided to come earlier. Half of the magnolias in my neighbourhood have fully bloomed, and the rest will wait for a few more days. They have beautifully risen, yet somehow my heart has not bloomed that huge like in the first spring. Even though my eyes hardly blink every time I pass by blooming trees. The joy of the first spring may never be fully remembered, but those flowers will.